2017 Met Gala - Not Your Father's Suit

There was a surprising number of pants worn at this year's Met Gala. Unexpected, but a lot of fun! Let's take look.

Aymeline Valade in Marnie
French model and actress, Aymeline Valade rocked this Marnie suit. The vintage vibe, the bright colors, the sparkle - I loved it all! Perfectly styled from head to toe. Nicely done, Aymeline!

Claire Danes in Monse
Claire Danes got her puffy shirt on in this black and white ensemble. That's a whole lot of ruffles (notice the train too), but I think she's mostly pulling it off. Honestly, I think it's the head styling and shoes that anchor this look and keep it from getting too needlessly frilly. The sharpness of those elements pulls the whole look together. Not bad, Claire.

Keri Russell in Rag & Bone
Kerri Russell is looking a little sad in her Rag & Bone pant suit. I think the no shirt was a missed opportunity. I would have loved to see a pop of red there to balance the look. Although, it's the hair and make-up that are the real disappointment. A look like this needs super sleek hair or super big hair - not, whatever this is. Then, the eyes are bit too heavy and the lip a bit too light. This one was a miss for me.

Emmy Rossum in Carolina Herrera
Actress, Emmy Rossum, looked lovely in this black and white combo. The simple black pant and shoe let the flowy white top take center stage. Sleek hair, bright red lip, and a great pair of earrings all complimented the look well. Good job, Emmy.

Hailee Steinfeld in Vera Wang
Hailee Steinfeld is still young enough to risk a look like this and not look completely ridiculous. I liked the slight military feel, but the baggy sleeves makes it feel droopy. Luckily, the short shorts and top knot help balance effect. Actually, I'd say the entire looked was saved by some pretty fierce head styling. Not my favorite look, but not a complete miss either.

Evan Rachel Wood in Altuzarra
Actress, Evan Rachel Wood fell short in this midnight blue and black look. I'm normally a fan of black and blue together, but something here is off kilter. There's not enough contrast between the top and the pants. Also, not a fan of the hair or eye make-up. This was another miss for me.

Bella Hadid in Alexander Wang
Model, Bella Hadid, wore this bold Alexander Wang catsuit. If you're going to wear something like this, the Met Gala is the place to do it. Surprisingly, I don't hate this. She's got the body for it, it's visually interesting, and styled well. Go for it, Bella!


Cara Delevingne in Chanel
Actress and model, Cara Delevingne looked out of this world in this silver Chanel suit. The suit itself is amazing enough, but all the little silver style details of the shoes, nails, and body glitter really elevated the look. The make-up is gorgeous, and hello, she painted her bald head silver!! This is a woman who gets what the Met Gala is all about. Gorgeous!!

All photos from here.


2017 Met Gala - The Avant-Garde

The first Monday in May has passed, which means it's Met Gala time!! My absolute favorite red carpet event. This year's theme was Rei Kawakubo/Commes des Garçons. In case you aren't quite up on your fashion houses, Rei Kawakubo is the designer behind the label Commes des Garçons. The annual Met exhibit and correlating Gala don't usually honor living designers, so I was curious to see how the attendees would interpret the somewhat difficult theme.

Let's start with those that dared to go there. You won't see these looks at the Oscars.

Katy Perry in Maison Margiela
Katy Perry, who co-hosted the event, wore this intricate and layered red on red look. The dress actually looks pretty amazing to me, and I would have liked to see more of it. There's some cool bead-work going on under there and an interesting silhouette too. The veil,'s much more of a distractor than an enhancer. Still, appropriately weird enough for the event. Good job, Katie! 

 Tracee Ellis Ross in Commes des Garçons
There were a surprisingly small amount of ladies that actually dared to wear the Commes des Garçons brand. Tracee Ellis Ross was one of them, and I think she hit it out of the park. This is absolutely gorgeous from the color to the fabric to the interesting structure the brand is known for. It's a great example of making high fashion work in the real world. The simple hair and make-up let the dress shine and the shoes and clutch compliment the look well. Way to go, Tracee!!

Grace Hartzel in Dior Haute Couture
Model, Grace Hartzel, completely transformed herself in this black goth/baby doll look. The hoodie (yes, that's a hoodie), skirt, and shoes are actually quite simple, but the make-up, ringlets, and perfect IDGAF attitude elevate the entire ensemble; making for quite the memorable look. Not bad, Grace.

Priyanka Chopra in Ralph Lauren
Actress, Priyanka Chopra, is making the most of this dramatic trench coach gown. However, just adding a huge train to a look doesn't always translate into high style. There's too much boring beige here - like she's dragging a tarp behind her. The boot was the wrong choice as well; it shortens her leg. A sleek black stiletto would have been a far better choice. Still, she's so damn gorgeous she really doesn't ever look bad in anything, and from the neckline up, she looks stunning.

Zendaya in Dolce & Gabbana
Actress, Zendaya, is quickly becoming a Met Gala favorite of mine. The girl just gets it. This gown is bold and gorgeous; the colors look amazing on her. She kept the jewelry and make-up to a minimum, then went big with the hair. Yet, it's the dress that is still the star. Absolutely stunning!

Niki Minaj in H&M
Nicki Minaj slayed in this red and black number. I'm not even sure this is a dress, but it's definitely cool looking. There's a ton of visual interest and the hair and make-up may be a personal best for her. Great job, Nicki!

 Solange in Thom Browne
I don't quite get Solange in general, and I don't even particularly love this look, but she does get what the Met Gala is about. I gotta give her that. While there are elements of ridiculous here, the simple black and white (love the cuffs!) makes this look feel surprisingly classic.

Helen Lasichanh in Commes des Garçons
Helen Lasichanh (otherwise known as Mrs. Pharrell Williams) opted to wear this risky Commes des Garçons number. I'm really torn on this one. It's completely absurd and not even particularly pretty; but for the Met Gala honoring Commes des Garçons? It's kind of spot-on. We're talking fashion as art here. Whether or not this is considered good art is up for interpretation, but as far as a good fashion choice for the Met Gala, she nailed it.

Anna Cleveland in Commes des Garçons
Another Commes des Garçons look worn by fashion model, Anna Cleveland. It's again, a more real world version of this brand's particular aesthetic. I'm digging the Marie Antoinette feel of this look - so many bows! The shoes, clutch, and hair all complimented the look well. I especially loved the pop of red from her lipstick. Well done, Anna!


Rihanna in Commes des Garçons
Rihanna went for broke with this rose and floral Commes des Garçons creation. I'm not sure how one functions in a dress such as this, but who cares, there's just so much to look at! Loved the head styling too. A top knot was probably the logical choice for hair, and that eye make-up is gorgeous. It is an absolutely insane look, but an absolutely perfect look for the Met Gala. You rock, Rihanna!!

What do you guys think? Do you see art here, or just crazy? Would you ever wear any of these? It takes a lot of confidence to pull off. Love all these ladies for making the effort.

All images from here.


Fan Girl - Outlander Season 3

The first trailers are out for Outlander Season 3! I'm so excited!

Season 3 is based off the third novel, Voyager, which I am right in the midst of rereading at the moment. Claire and Jamie are apart for many years during this one, so I'll be interested to see how that all plays out on screen.  Last season I couldn't wait for all the fancy French Louis XV costuming. This season, with Claire's story primarily set in the 1960's, we should see lots of fun mid-century styling for her this time around. Jamie is still in 1700's Scotland though, so they'll still be a lot of period costuming too. Yay!

I know, sounds crazy, but it's one of my favorite book series and now television series ever!!

Also, Lord John! Trust me, you'll love him.

P.S.  Fan Girl - Outlander 1Fan Girl - Outlander -2 | Book Report - Outlander | Book Report - Dragonfly in Amber | Book Report - Written in My Own Heart's Blood | Book Report - Lord John and the Hand of Devils


Checking In On My 5-Year Plan

I recently celebrated my 38th birthday, and was reminded of a few years back on my 35th birthday when I put together a list of 35 things I wanted to do in the next 5 years (see here). I thought it would be fun, since I'm 3 years in now, to check-in and see if I've actually accomplished anything on the list.
Hmmm, now that I think about it, maybe this isn't a great idea. This could get really depressing for me really fast, but let's dive in anyway, shall we?

1 - Write a Novel.
I've started a number of "stories", but never completed any of them.  I don't care if it never gets published, I just want to finish something I've started.

Update - nothing to report here. I still think about it all the time though.

2 - Learn Hair and Make-up.
I have about three hairstyles and have done my make-up the exact same way for probably 10 years now.  I need to learn some new tricks.

Update - in the last 6 months, I actually have tried some new make-up techniques and learned one new hairstyle. So, you know, baby steps, I guess.

3 - Be Musical.
I brag a lot about knowing how to play a variety of instruments, but the truth is I haven't really "played" music in years.  I love it though, and I want to be able to pick up the violin, guitar, or piano and just play something.

Update - we now have a keyboard in the house! I had a lot of fun playing Christmas carols over the holidays, but that's been about it. Oh, and Madeleine is taking piano lessons now too, so that's fun.

4 - Save Some Cash.
I have a good job and a nice chunk of change in the 401(k), but I'm not very good at saving money.  I really want to build up the old emergency fund and be done with debt too.

Update - hmm, better than I was 3 years ago, but I'd like to be further along. Still, progress, I guess. 

5 - Learn Photography.
I want to learn how to use my camera properly, and how to edit photos.

Update - ugh, I've done nothing.

6 - Finish Decorating My Bedroom.
There's so much I want to do in the house in the next five years, but I've never had that relaxing and romantic grown up bedroom, so I want to make sure I make our bedroom a priority.

Update - yeah, nothing here either, although we did buy a headboard.

7 - Expand My Vocabulary.

Really, I want to improve my speech in general.  I'm good at writing, but I always get tripped up speaking. I can never think of the right word on the spot, so I figure knowing more words will help with this problem.

Update - while I still like the idea of this one; I don't think it has even crossed my mind in the last 3 years. Not really a priority, you know?

8 -  Date My Husband.

I want to make sure this is a priority.  We need more one on one time.  Even if we can't always go out on an actual date our evenings after the kids go to bed should be more about connecting as individuals, and less about parenting and housework.

Update - I think this has been going well. Of course, Bill and I could always be spending more quality time together, but I don't feel like this is any sort of problem in our relationship. I'll always wish to be with him more though; I love the guy!

9 - Read More.

I love reading, but the only time I seem to do it anymore is right before bed.  The days of curling up with a book on the weekend for a couple hours are long gone, but I'm going to reign them back in.

Update - oh man, if anything, I think I've been reading less lately! While, I don't think I'll ever be able to say I read enough, I'd like to at least be reading about 2 books a month. If I average all the books I've read the last 3 years, I've actually surpassed, but that's only due to completing that massive reading challenge of 2015 (see here). I've definitely tapered off on reading since then though.

10 - Visit Paris.

I haven't been since I was a senior in high school.  I'd like to go again, preferably alone with Bill.  It is the city of love after all.

Update - a girl can still dream.

11 - Learn Flower Design.
Every time I see an ad for a flower design school I want to sign right up.  I love bouquets, and I think I would actually love making my own.

Update - no movement here either. I'd still love to learn, but think I'd be just as happy if I simply tried to have more fresh flowers in the house on a regular basis.

12 - Join a Club or Charity.
I'd like to make some friends, and I'd also like to help people.  I want to have a cause that I can champion.

Update -  I've dipped my toe in here, but haven't committed fully to any cause or organization yet. I'm definitely not to the point where I've sacrificed any significant portion of my time or gained any sort of personal fulfillment yet. 

13 - Get Back to Nature.
Arizona is such a great place for hiking and being outside.  I would love to start taking family camping trips here and all over the country.  S'mores anyone?

Update - we've hiked quite a few times as a family, but it's not a regular occurrence; and we've still yet to go camping.

14 - Be Pretty.
I want to make sure I occasionally indulge myself on frivolous girly beauty stuff - manicures, facials, massages or blow-outs. I've had a "put myself last" mentality for too long now.

Update - I have been getting manicures/pedicures more lately, but that's about it. Plus, those are not on any sort of regular basis yet by any means. I do get my hair colored every 6 weeks like clock-work though.

15 - Bake Madeleines.
I bought some Madeleine baking trays years ago with the intent of making them all the time for my little Madeleine.  It was going to be her signature cookie.  I have never done it once.

Update - I did this! Just once (see here), but you know, I still finally did it.

16 - Dress Awesome.
I've seriously lost my sense of style over the past five years.  I want to have fun with clothes again.

Update - I've definitely gotten back into having fun with fashion again. I hope to be sharing lots more fashion posts soon.

17 - Be Active.
I was an avid tennis player in my youth, and I like the idea of golf.  I'd like to do more of both of them.  I think I would also enjoy biking (if I had a bike).

Update - While I haven't played tennis or golf yet, I did get a bike (see here). I don't ride it as much as I thought I would yet though. What I have started doing again is running. I try to run a couple of times a week and have worked my way up to 2 mile stretches at a time.

18 - Get to Know My Children.
I really want to have a good relationship with my children.  I want to spend one-on-one time with each of them more, and get to know who they really are.  I want to make sure I'm parenting who my child is, not what I think or hope they might be.

Update - I don't think this is ever something I'll be able to cross off as finished or complete, as it's a process that will grow and change as they do. Have I made a conscious effort to do this though? I hope so, but it never feels like enough.

19 - Go to Hawaii.
There are so many places I want to visit as a family, but the kids are so small right now - would they even remember?  I figure Hawaii would be a great place to start back our big vacations.  It's slightly exotic, but still part of the US.  It's a big enough vacation to seem grand, but not so big where the kids would be disappointed if they don't remember.

Update - if we had gone to Hawaii you'd have heard about it; still just a dream.

20 - Lose Weight.
So, cliché I know, but the truth is I've gained about 40 pounds in the last 10 years.  I'd like to feel better about the way I look. I'd want to set a good example of a healthy lifestyle for my children.

Update - dude, I totally did this! I've been meaning to talk about it more, but it's still a work in progress yet. I'll just say that I've lost 30 pounds in the last 7 months and still hope to lose more. Maybe when I've moved to the maintaining stage I'll be more ready to talk about it. 

21 - Learn French.
I've sort of accepted that I probably will never be fluent in French, but I still want to be better at it.  I just love the language so much.

Update - no further along then when I first wrote this one.

22 - Have Dinner/Cocktail Parties.
I love the idea of entertaining - creating a table-scape and menu, cloth napkins; maybe even dressing up.  It's such a great way to make a random weeknight more special.  I need to make some friends first though.
Update - while we do occasionally have friends over, I've yet to really entertain on the level I'm imagining. Being fancy is a lot of work!

23 - Keep in Touch.
Now that we're on the other side of the country far from family and most of our friends, I want to make sure I don't neglect the relationships of those people I hold dear.

Update - another ongoing goal that I could definitely be better at. 

24 - Establish Routines.
There are a lot of repetitive chores around the house that should be on autopilot, but aren't.  I want to get meal planning, laundry, and cleaning on weekly routines so I know exactly what I'm doing everyday.

Update - um, no. Housework and chores are still the bane of my existence.

25 -  Get My Craft On.
I used to love to cross stitch, and I miss it.  I want to learn how to crochet and sew, and even paint.  I feel like I used to be a creative person, and I'd like to be that way again.

Update - other than the occasional cake/cookie decorating project, I've not done much crafting in any way.

26 - Memorize a Poem.
I love the idea of being able to recite a poem or snippet of literature by heart and on demand. I would love our family dinners to occasionally have a salon type feel.

Update - yeah, no. Why did I even want to do this again? I mean, I still love the idea of it, but definitely low on my priority list.

27 - Learn to Make Sushi
I came late to the sushi bandwagon, but now that I'm on it I'm not getting off.  The more sushi I try, the more I like it.  It seems like it would be a fun dinner to make that gets the whole family involved.  I want to learn how.

Update - I still think this would be fun, but alas, I haven't done it yet.

28 - Research the Family Tree.
I've always wanted to learn more about my family and Bill's.  It's so fun to look at old photographs and hear stories, but I'd like to make it a little more formal and create a nice genealogy for everyone to enjoy.

Update - no progress here.

29 - Get My Estate in Order.
I've been meaning to put my affairs in order for some time now - who gets the kids, where are all the accounts, passwords, trusts, life insurance, etc.  We've done bits and pieces, but I need to fill in the gaps and make sure it is all readily accessible if anything should happen to one or both of us.

Update - and no progress here either. This should really be a priority though. I don't want to get caught unprepared.

30 - Get Organized and Purge.
I know we just moved, but I'm constantly looking for stuff in the new house.  I want everything to have a place, and know where that place is. I want to love everything in my home, not just collect stuff.

Update - I definitely have purged (see here and here), but I'm not yet living the sort of streamlined and minimalist life I've dream of.

31 - Bring Back a Little Culture.
I love the ballet, symphony (or any live music event), museums, and theater.  It's been far too long since I've gone to any of these.  I want to make them a regular part of my life, as well as my children's.

Update - I'm making progress here. We took the kids to the children's theater once. I've also invested in season tickets to ASU Gammage, so we've been taking in about one Broadway musical every other month or so. Plus, of course, there was Bon Jovi (see here). I've not been to the symphony or ballet in years though.

32 - Grow Something.I would love to have a little vegetable garden somewhere on our lot.  I also want to have a citrus or avocado tree.  I have an extreme black thumb, so this one will be a challenge.  Maybe I'll start with a cactus.
Update - OMG, I cannot even grow a cactus! 

33 - Keep Up with Technology.I love blogging, but I don't know much about the tech side of it.  I'm also heavily dependent on my IT Professional husband at home if anything isn't working.  I don't want technology to pass me by.  I want to know how to work all our electronics as well as learn more about the behind the scenes of blogging.
Update - I'm nowhere near where I'd like to be here either.

34 - Give Experiences.I'd like to give less things and more experiences to Bill and the kids.  We have plenty of stuff.  I'd rather give them memories.
Update - I've not done this as much as I had hoped, but I'm always on the lookout for great ideas.

35 - Be Happy.Having a list is great, but more than anything I just want to love myself, be loved, and enjoy life.

Update - I think I'm in a better place emotionally and physically than where I was 3 years ago. I'll probably always be looking for more fulfillment and meaning from life, but all in all, yes, I'm happy.

How about you? Is your life where you thought it would be by the age you are? I think as long as I'm continually attempting to self-improve, I'm pretty content. I'm not gonna lie though, I don't think I'll ever be truly satisfied. There's just too much to see and do in this world for me to ever say, "That's enough. I'm good."


My New Jam - Green Light

I'm totally digging Lorde's new song, Green Light. Check it out!

I've always loved her sound, and the song has a great build that will have you totally rocking out by the time the chorus hits. Love it!

What are you listening to these days?


What I'm Watching - Stand-up Comedy

I've always been a fan of stand-up comedy. It's so fun to see live (remember when I saw Aziz Anzari - see here), but sometimes it's even better when you just need a good laugh at home. Lately, whenever I have an extra hour and am by myself (which is rare), I've been watching Netflix's Comedy Specials. They're low-commitment (just an hour) and provide a much needed laugh. I can't get enough!

Here's five I've watched recently.

Jim Gaffigan - Cinco
I've been a big Jim Gaffigan fan for years. Bill and I have even seen him live - twice! His stuff is good clean fun. He jokes a lot about being fat, being a parent, and being Catholic - all things I can completely relate too.

Ali Wong - Baby Cobra
I hadn't heard of Ali Wong prior to watching her special, but I'm a fan now. She filmed her special 7 months pregnant! She jokes a lot about being Asian, a woman, and how much she hates working - very funny.

 Amy Schumer - The Leather Special
Of course I had to watch Amy Schumer's special. It was, as I would expect, quite raunchy - but come on, love her!

John Mulhaney - The Comeback Kid
I knew who John Mulaney was, but had never seen his act before. Lots of jokes about being newly married and Catholic. Funny and a real cutie too.

 Katherine Ryan - In Trouble
Saving the best for last, Katherine Ryan's special had me in stitches almost the entire time. She jokes about how much she hates her home town in Canada, tormenting her sister, and how she inadvertently once insulted the entire Filipino race. Hilarious!

There's still so many more I want to watch too - Louis C.K., Maria Bamford, and Trevor Noah. Who is your favorite stand-up comic?


2017 Mother's Day Gift Guide

Mother's Day is coming up, and like every year, I've asked Bill for a day off. But if you're one to express your gratitude to the woman who birthed you or your children in a more materialistic way; I've rounded up a few gifts ideas for you. Enjoy!
This  Mama Bear Pendant is so simple and sweet. It's a perfect little companion piece to all those adorable handmade presents the kids will be showering upon her. 
A colorful silk scarf is always a nice surprise. I love things that are pretty just for the sake of being pretty. It's such a fun way to dress up a simple outfit or bag.
And speaking of bags, this Transport Crossbody Bag is great for any mom on the go. It's simple, stylish, and will go with everything.

The ultimate luxury item that she'd never splurge on herself, the real deal - Crème De La Mer moisturizing cream. Ahhh, a girl can dream.
Every woman needs a safe place to put her rings here and there throughout the day. This Diamond Gold Ring Holder would be such a lovely little addition on a dresser, bathroom counter, or vanity.

If you're a mom, what would you love to get on Mother's Day? Do you want to be with your kids, or away from them? I think moms of young kids just want a break, but mom's of grown children would rather spend the day with their kids. Really though, all you need to do is give your mom any sort of acknowledgement that what she gives and does for the family is appreciated. It's really as simple as that.